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טקסט:
Hey, you, if you came here it's probably for a reason.
And let me tell you something, I don't care who you are, what's your name, how much money you have in your bank account, if you drive an expensive car, if you've got many friends, if you are tall or short, fat or skinny, if you love boys or girls, I have one thing to say to you, NEVER TURN AGAINST YOURSELF.
Even if right now, there is not even one person in the whole world that cares about you, DONT TURN AGAINST YOURSELF.
Because at the moment you turn against yourself, you'll make the amount of people that care for you from 0 to minus 1, and from there you'll get to nowhere.
Unless you killed or raped someone, I don't care what you've done in your damn life, it's never too late to say "yes, I did a mistake", "yes, I failed" but, and it's a big but, like, kim and jlo butts combined together which is a wonderful picture to imagine~~~ but I love myself.
Shout it, Scream it loudly, say it! "I love myself"
We all tend to forget this important thing, that you must be complete with yourself before everything, otherwise how can you expect anyone to connect to you.
And sometimes, it all looks dark, scary, dangerous and cruel, and it's exactly the time when you give up and say "I can't take it anymore" but why can't you?! why? the answer is - because you decided.
And in this point people will tell me "But I feel bad" "I'm not complete with my life" OK, then find the source of the problem and exterminate it!
When you will turn to your friends or family and tell them "I feel bad" they will tell you "everything is ok, you can do it" but this is exactly the problem! what if everything is not ok? what if you don't want to do it?
It has become obvious that we do what we're expected to do and not what we really want to do, and then we find ourselves study for years for a profession that we are not interested in, or working in a job that every day in it is hell
This is how it looks! and the source of the problem is that you are not doing for yourself.
"Doing for yourself" seems like madness nowadays but who are you if you can't even decide what to do with your own life?
And why won't you? you know you live on this planet only for 70 or 80 years, why would you spend them on things you don't even love, every minute you waste on the wrong place will never come back.
And I don't care if you have no one in your life, you'll be able to earn the most important people if only you be yourself RIGHT FROM THIS MOMENT.
If you stop fighting yourself only for a moment you'll realize you need yourself before you need anyone, and then you will get to places you only dream of.
And i'm not trying to say that you can walk through life easily without any friends, I'm trying to show you the right direction to find those who should really be there more easily.
Like I said, if you have not done anythin extremely awful to someone then there's no reason in the world you'll feel bad about yourself.
Wake up in the morning and say "I'm X and I love dancing" "I'm Y and I love singing" "I'm Z and I love cooking"
Can you imagine a car that drives forward and backward at the same time? this is what happens within you when you fight yourself, not only that you waste so much important energy, you stay stuck in the same place, which means, you wasted all of your power and earned nothing at all.
So then, when you wake up tomorrow tell yourself that no matter where you go, you'll do it with self completion.
Life will always test you, and sometimes you may lose, you may lose money, you may get hurt, you may fight with a friend, but the worst loss of them all is when you lose yourself, don't ever let pain overpower you.
Where ever you'd go, people feel if you are complete with yourself or not, and it will decide their attitude for you, if you want it to be better, firstly love yourself.
Now I'm not saying that from the moment you apply that on your life everything will be absolutely perfect, you probably won't find your dream job or marry the love of your life soon, but one thing is sure, no matter how bad the situation may be, you'll always stand strong.
Never be depended on others, sometimes we get to a point in our life when we feel so bad until we get dependent, and when people won't be there to help, we feel doomed, this is the problem when you are not complete with yourself, because when you are, you'll always know that even when no one is there to help, it definitely does'nt mean that hope is gone.
If you are depended on others, they'll feel it, don't be that person that when he is around then the image is getting darker, be the one who makes it wonderful to watch.
Start by being in a straight line with others, which basically means "I need you, but not more than you need me" and then when ever you'll get rejected by anyone for any reason, you'll say "OK, what ever..." and walk away.
I promise you, that when you apply this rule, people would actually want to be with you even more, because people are more attracted to the "OK, what ever..." than the "Oh, please!" try this and tell me if I'm wrong.
I'm sure that you've met one person in your life that when ever he is around the energy becomes happier and fun or calm and peaceful, I dare you! I dare you to be the person that when he is around you can feel his presence, I dare you to be the one that will find his soul whether he is alone or amongst thousands of people.
I dare you to be, YOU.
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